" Before she began sharing her expertise about the opposite sex, Alison worked on children's issues and programs to help the homeless in Orange Country, CA.
She hopes that helping people with their relationships will make for better marriages, stronger families, and healthier, happier children. I'm constantly trying to find out what's really going on here, how does this work, what could we say or do differently to get what we want out of life.
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And a desire to love, to love fully and to have one's love fully received and cherished.
A common problem is that women think men are cut off from their feelings.
Men derive an enormous amount of comfort from a woman's believing in them. When a man commits to a person, he buys the whole package. We don't just say, "That's the way he is." We say, "This is the way he is, and I like these parts, and those parts I'm going to change." Criticism ends more relationships than anything I can think of. Because women tend to respond to criticism, we think criticizing a man will change him.
If she thinks he can do it, he must be able to do it. A man is also looking for a woman who will respond to his playfulness. If someone criticizes his friend, he says "That's just the way he is." He accepts that friendship or business partner or wife or girlfriend all the ways that she is, or all the ways that she isn't. But it just makes a man feel not accepted, like he should keep his distance.