Chances are he wants it just as badly as you do, and he isn’t condemning the act either.
Sexual compatibility is important part of a relationship.
We’re too busy trying to decipher what the other person is thinking that we don’t listen to what we actually want.If you both are into each other, then there’s no good reason not to enjoy each other more.According to the 2012 Singles In America study, 41 percent of New York men regard sex on the first date as “very appropriate” or “somewhat appropriate.”So don’t be hesitant on the guy’s behalf. There's a good chance your petite new love interest is a "firecracker," as some say, which will make you love her even more.6. The arm on her head makes her like your kid sister, not your lover.9. She is really good at crawling into small places, like the window of your apartment that you're locked out of. It's actually pretty scary to be lost in a crowd of people taller than you, so hang on tight and don't let go.14. So, when you do finally meet her on your first date, do NOT tell her that she looks so much taller in her Instagram photos. What she lacks in height, she makes up for in personality. It makes her feel like her neck is going to break (note: It was made to support the weight of her pretty little head only, possibly along with a motorcycle helmet, if you're that kind of guy). After all, she can wear the highest heels without looking ridiculous, which she knows makes her tall friends jealous. If you keep things where she can't reach them, she make you get them. And if you do want a romantic night of walking around town, let her know in advance so girlfriend can at least wear a wedge.12. Unlike the tall girl you last dated, you can put her in almost any position you want when you're fooling around. She knows how petite she is, but just because you might be seeing her/learning this information for the first time doesn't mean you need to voice it.Wait because of how it will affect you.”Your decision to have sex is your own; it’s not about him.Regardless, guys who are interested in you and want to see you will still follow up and pursue you -- sex!All that matters is how much the couple like and are attracted to each other, which determines how many dates they have, and whether the guy calls back.It appears that the first-date-sex couples usually don't last because people don't know each other very well on first dates and they have a high rate of failure regardless of sex.Remember too that men are pretty basic when it comes to dating and sex. As Jeff Wilser, co-author of "It's Okay to Sleep With Him on the First Date: And Every Other Rule of Dating, Debunked" tells Cosmo, “In the history of planet Earth, no guy has ever said, "She's awesome. She's sexy, and she's into 'Game of Thrones.' There's only one problem.…We hooked up on the first date."If you don’t have sex early on, the pressure to have it builds too greatly.Each subsequent date becomes a constant mind-game of Maïa Mazaurette, columnist for GQ magazine in France, agrees saying, “Because Brits and Americans are wary about when to move the relationship into the bedroom it makes us more prudish when we finally get down to it.”When sexual tension builds, you’re likely to become more awkward and over-analytical about why it’s not happening.