ME: I am careful & caring, responsible and softhearted, but ..
You should not regard the distance between us as a factor of not being together. I am looking for a GOOD woman that is : Honest, affectionate ( caring ), sensitive ( big heart ), romantic, faithful, loyal, easy laugh, funny, that have good feelings, good manners, educated that like and enjoy the basi..In Korean culture, women just don’t do that sort of thing.It’s just not done, at least not until she’s ready to show her parents the guy she is about to marry. In Korea, a woman’s dating life is kept far away from her family life.To me, coming from the West, meeting a girl’s friends and spending time in her group is part of the dating experience.I had no idea why she would keep me hidden from her friends when she was apparently so into me.When I first started having “relationships” with Korean women I had a really tough time understanding how they would act, and why. She had curves in all the right places and a personality that was just as seductive.All the normal dating conventions seemed to be skewed just enough to keep me guessing. She thought the world of me, too, so our relationship grew quickly and we became close. That’s why I found it odd that she was so self-conscious about being seen with me, and never included me in anything she did with her friends.Today's actions will shape the memories of tomorrow. My dating life in Korea started off as a string of bizarre incidents.As I was watching my chicken get dumped into a takeout box behind the counter, one of the guys started bitching about how his girl never invited him out with her friends, and never let him meet her family. If you’re going to date a local in a foreign country, you have to realize that the way things work in the West is not always how they work in other countries.A lot of the customs and behaviours guys expect from girls are shattered when they date women from other cultures.