I’ll explain and give examples in just a second 🙂 My experience has also been that Although there is plenty to say about this combination of push-pull and cocky-funny, I’ll leave that to another article.My focus here is on the 80/20 principle applied to the push-pull dynamic. What I say here is NOT for absolute newbies, who don’t yet have their fundamentals down (body language, tonality, and basic inner game). A quickie definition of push-pull straight from the pen of Swingcat: We’ll be filling this out as we go along. While you can succeed using almost any combination of push and pull (e.g., 80% push-20% pull, 50% push-50% pull), This applies only if the following also hold: a.And obviously, when a guy with good fundamentals, attractive appearance, or high social value is perceived as a “major player,” it is very bad for him. You can do mainly push and just a little pull, like 80% push and 20% pull. b) You can get the girl to feel a deeper emotional bond with you by pulling more often than pushing.Here’s why: If your fundamentals are good, then you will be a relatively dominant, powerful, confident, charismatic, and emotionally steadfast man.If both those elements are in place, then the fastest and most powerful route to sex is a mix of 80% pull-20% push.[CAVEAT: If the man only has average fundamentals and the woman is only of average confidence in her own attractiveness and value, then the optimal mix is further down the continuum and closer to 50-50 push-pull..Perhaps he knew people wouldn’t be fooled by a more Anglo-sounding name.David De Angelo is an attractive man, especially compared to some of the famously unattractive stars of the seduction community (Ross Jeffries, Neil Strauss, etc.).
She wants to see YOU in person and feel you, touch you and take it from there.
When you’re emotionally pulling a girl in by telling her to kiss you, she will have to work extra hard to resist. In fact, by pulling most of the time, when you do finally push her away, it’ll feel that much more powerful to her. (Pull #5) Her: (laughed) Me: (perking up and letting out a sly smile): Okay, give me your number. I took her number, we talked a little bit more, then I let her go back to her friends. You can’t imagine something like this working when you’re a beginner, but this is how top naturals with tons of confidence around women are able to get the girl excited and attracted so fast. In fact, I don’t even think that push was necessary.
Most girls like a strong, dominant, powerful, confident, charismatic guy, and many girls have the fantasy of “being taken” by such a man. If you’re a dominant guy, girls will feel pressure to follow your orders, and unless she’s very dominant herself, chances are good that she will NOT pull you in return every time. (Push #1) Her: (laughed) Me: (said nothing and continued looking fake-mad) Her: “Okay, bye,” and started walking off. I texted her about an hour later, and she texted back, asking what I was doing tomorrow. This sort of Pull Cocky-Funny can get you super fast makeouts and, as my natural friends have shown, club bathroom hookups. Among the community old-timers, Zan is probably the best representative of this kind of cocky-funny.
Hence, girls (and most people in general) will naturally feel like following your lead.
So when you tell a girl to sit down, she will feel a strong social and emotional pull to sit down. I’m going to go home and cry now (and then I slumped my shoulders as if completely sad and depressed).