• About the Author: Who Is This Radio Wright Guy Anyway?• Resources Like most guys, I didn’t put much thought into my username when I first started with online dating. It’s just something I quickly selected when I first signed up to the dating site. My results were terrible: No emails, No responses, No love.This synergy has made my dating life crazy awesome. To go from not being able to get a date, to being able to attempt 150 Dates in 1 Year is a big difference. So that’s where we’ll start and why I created The Complete Online Dating Username Guide: A Step By Step Guide For Creating Your Own Irresistible Username. Girls take about 3 seconds to decide to check you out or to move on to the next guy. Here is an example of what a girl sees when she’s searching – The username is right at the top. You didn’t put much thought into your username — but it’s your first impression, so don’t sabotage your online dating with a bla username!There’s an online epidemic of username suckyness going on that’s about to get cured for the Doc’s group of kick-ass gents. When a girl is browsing profiles or checking through her messages deciding which guy to click on — there’s a problem. Your username is one of the first things a girl sees online. I surveyed 10 girls that use online dating and they all agreed.If you want step-by-step info about how to use online dating to grow your dating life far beyond what it is now, read and apply.) • Create Your Own Username • Step 1: Brainstorming Keywords • Step 2: Combining Keywords Into Usernames • The Username Worksheet • What’s Next?Because when you’re dating online, which is an extremely competitive medium, you need every advantage you can get.A great username is a differentiator – a unique brand name – something that completely sets you apart from every other person on a dating site.
You want everything matching, looking good & working together.And when your ideal partner is scrolling through hundreds of names – Sally102, Jen NYC1, Lawyer Gal – a great username can be the very reason that someone contacts you. And you become convinced that usernames don’t matter. In my opinion, a username should be a pun or a play on words. Wine Not – for the wine aficionado Lady Go Go – for the world traveler Bach To Bach – for the classical music enthusiast Tender Legal – for the soft-hearted lawyer See the common thread?Most people take one of two wrong tacks when coming up with an online dating username: 1) Putting ZERO thought into it: Bill10247, Claire T, Ally Cat 2) Putting minimal thought into it, using a literal description: Tall Doctor, Gorgeous Goddess, Fun2Be Around The problem with these efforts, of course, is not that they’re “bad”, but rather that they’re BORING. All of them are plays off of real names, idioms or catchphrases, which is why they evoke smiles from readers.If you email her, she’ll first see your username, photo and subject line of your email. What girl in her right mind would want to date a guy with a username like this: Note: Bad usernames are typical.Just take a look on any dating website for yourself and you’ll see.Guide to Create a Username Women Find Irresistible.Who It’s For: Are you a guy interested in getting better results from online dating?Using the positive association girls have with finding their Knight In Shining Armor. I know it’s a little confusing but I’ll make it crystal clear with these detailed examples. This would be a great name for a wrestler that 13 year old boys would find awesome but — for women? Something I see all the time is guys adding a bunch of numbers after their name. To connect to these pleasant feelings, your username should be any combination of the following: Funny, Dorky, Tender, Subtly Romantic, Silly, Creative. But the username — feelslike ZOOM — is AWESOME because it still hints at that love/excitement feeling that a girl finds attractive without being to mushy.When he changed his username from Mike4758 to Mike In Shining Armor, All hell broke loose!!! When creating a username remember that it needs to appeal to women. So how can you connect to more of these good feelings?In Finding the One Online, I give you 7 hours of audio, a 180 page transcript, a 35 page workbook – and tips on everything from choosing the right site, to writing a compelling online dating profile, to taking the right photos, to flirting effectively via email so that every single person will want to meet you in person. What’s the most memorable username you’ve ever seen on a dating site?I’m quite sure our readers are not going to copy them for their own personal usage. The most memorable (in a good way) were a Blond Moment, Polyglotapus, and Toe_Tap_N.